Do you go by your mind or heart ???

It's just in the beginning babe!!

Every guy will be his best before tying the knot or getting into a committed relationship. But those best days will only be in the beginning as he need not impress you anymore cuz u've already fallen into the trap. You have to deal with his every mood swing and understand every situation even when u'

ve no clue about anything. So stop living in a fairyland. Relationship and living with a man is never gonna be an  easy task. Perfect boys exist only in movies, novels or plays. Not in real.

Remind yourself every time u think about giving any guy space in your heart. Cuz he definitely comes with a heartache along. He should be worth the heartache that he's gonna give you and if you're really prepared to face them all alone.

Romantic candle light dinners, long rides, night out, little cuddles, bouquets of roses, chocolates are just in the beginning. Cuz he will remind you everytime that he is not so jobless to do those little sweet things for you like before. So don't dream or expect sweetness in your relationship throughout.

A lot of his traits, behaviour will eventually change. He won't be the humble guy anymore. He will start comparing his qualification with yours. His job with yours. His salary with yours. He might remind you everytime how jobless you are if you have quit everything for him and his family.
The same guy who made you feel like a princess will remind you how fat you are. Why your clothes don't fit you anymore. How much you eat. Everytime you feel like eating a pastry or an ice cream, he will taunt you about your curves.

He might even start double dating and he will appreciate and support other girls in front of you. He will compare you with them. He will prove that they are better than you.

He will regret being with you. He will try to convince you how a casual argument which he is used to earlier give up just to make you feel you are right, appear to be a big fight now and you are the reason for it.

He will compare your friends with his. He will insult you in front of them and publically display your incapabilities.

He always used to touch your cheeks and pinch them and sing googly woogly wooksh but he slaps those same cheeks now in anger and shows you his frustration.

You would block his calls everywhere but now you are blocked from his life. His last seen will never become  visible to you cuz he would have removed you from his contacts.

Not every special guy whom you meet in your teenage is gonna be the best husband. He is gonna be good and special only for that phase of your life. He will eventually change too. So stop dreaming or fantasizing about your teenage boyfriend or crush. It might have just been an attraction.

Those special cute names  you used to address him with love will irritate him more.

Be prepared to be with the worst man then every little thing your man does will look great. 

I'm sorry !!

I'm sorry,
 I wont be sorry for being me,
I wont be sorry for not living the way you want,
I wont be sorry for being real,
I wont be sorry for sticking to my values,
I wont be sorry for doing the right things,
I wont be sorry for what you've understood,
I wont be sorry for hurting you with the truth,
I wont be sorry for fighting for my rights,
I wont be sorry for loving you,
I wont be sorry for loving me more than anybody else.

To my love warrior-for the battle of love

I know you will never be mine, but I still hope
I know you will never understand , but I still wish
I know you will never miss me, but I still dream
I know you will never give up your ego, but I still surrender
I know you will never want me, but I still need
I know you will never need me, but I still crave
I know you will never love me, but I will still love you forever

Are you lucky ?

Everybody's gonna leave you at the end of it. It's your journey and hopes alone. Nobody is gonna walk with you throughout. The world is selfish. Life is such a tough battle between independence and compromises. Either you choose your freedom and decide to live it alone or choose to live with somebody else compromising on your dreams, wishes, values. Lucky are the one who get the best of both along with an unconditional loving relationship.

Ah PErfection ?? What is it ?? This is imperfect too...

Nobody is perfect. May be that's why there is something best hidden in every individual. There is something unique about them. There is something that brings a smile while a few which makes us cry. There is atleast one thing you get to learn from everyone even if you hate everything else about them. Life is about how we see it and make choices of people. We choose the ones whose best are something that we value and whose worst are tolerable compared to the best. We reject the ones whose best is although their best but isn't something compatible and not something that we value. We don't even try considering even if they have less weaknesses as we have already rejected their best attribute.
Choices about people especially the ones who are expected to spend a lot of time with us is just so scary. But the truth is that nobody is perfect and we have to live past those imperfections and remind ourselves every time if the person is worth our tolerance and also is ready to compromise on those attributes which are weaknesses too just the way we are ready to do...