It's just in the beginning babe!!

Every guy will be his best before tying the knot or getting into a committed relationship. But those best days will only be in the beginning as he need not impress you anymore cuz u've already fallen into the trap. You have to deal with his every mood swing and understand every situation even when u'

ve no clue about anything. So stop living in a fairyland. Relationship and living with a man is never gonna be an  easy task. Perfect boys exist only in movies, novels or plays. Not in real.

Remind yourself every time u think about giving any guy space in your heart. Cuz he definitely comes with a heartache along. He should be worth the heartache that he's gonna give you and if you're really prepared to face them all alone.

Romantic candle light dinners, long rides, night out, little cuddles, bouquets of roses, chocolates are just in the beginning. Cuz he will remind you everytime that he is not so jobless to do those little sweet things for you like before. So don't dream or expect sweetness in your relationship throughout.

A lot of his traits, behaviour will eventually change. He won't be the humble guy anymore. He will start comparing his qualification with yours. His job with yours. His salary with yours. He might remind you everytime how jobless you are if you have quit everything for him and his family.
The same guy who made you feel like a princess will remind you how fat you are. Why your clothes don't fit you anymore. How much you eat. Everytime you feel like eating a pastry or an ice cream, he will taunt you about your curves.

He might even start double dating and he will appreciate and support other girls in front of you. He will compare you with them. He will prove that they are better than you.

He will regret being with you. He will try to convince you how a casual argument which he is used to earlier give up just to make you feel you are right, appear to be a big fight now and you are the reason for it.

He will compare your friends with his. He will insult you in front of them and publically display your incapabilities.

He always used to touch your cheeks and pinch them and sing googly woogly wooksh but he slaps those same cheeks now in anger and shows you his frustration.

You would block his calls everywhere but now you are blocked from his life. His last seen will never become  visible to you cuz he would have removed you from his contacts.

Not every special guy whom you meet in your teenage is gonna be the best husband. He is gonna be good and special only for that phase of your life. He will eventually change too. So stop dreaming or fantasizing about your teenage boyfriend or crush. It might have just been an attraction.

Those special cute names  you used to address him with love will irritate him more.

Be prepared to be with the worst man then every little thing your man does will look great.